Matthew 5:4 “Blessed and enviably happy are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted!”
If the first Beatitude was a puzzler, the second one seems worse! Who among us has not stood by the bedside of a dying loved one? Who among us has not agonized as we listened over the phone, realizing that we were hearing our beloved father, mother, sister, brother, or close friend speak for what could well be the last time? And which of us has not accompanied a body to a graveyard?
There are also other forms of grief just as profound. One friend went to work one morning, confident that he had a few more years before retirement from his secure position, only to find that his company was moving his particular division 700 miles away. Our friend was given a choice: take an early buy – out and cease the work he loved passionately, or tear up all roots and move to a location far from family, church, and friends. Our friend chose the buy – out and went home jobless. His grief was just as deep as that of someone losing a beloved relative. Think of families of veterans who have returned struggling with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. The wounds are all internal ones, but the loss of a “normal” life leads to prolonged grieving. There are all kinds of grieving and mourning. But in the midst of grief comes Jesus’ statement that those who mourn will be blessed. So, where is the blessing in these losses?
The Amplified Version of New King James states that those who mourn may receive” a happiness produced by the experience of God’s favorand especially conditioned by the revelation of His matchless grace.“ When Jesus preached in a synagogue, He quoted Isaiah 61:2 which says, “To proclaim the acceptable year of the Lord [the year of His favor], the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn.” Luke 4:18 NKJV Amplified states ..He has sent me…to send forth as delivered those who are oppressed [who are downtrodden, bruised, crushed, and broken down by calamity]”
Now there’s a thought! All of us can relate to being downtrodden, bruised, crushed, and broken down by calamity! But why would God favor those who mourn? “Favor” is defined as “an attitude of approval or liking.” God is a loving Father who likes His children. These days, many people are growing up without fathers at all, so fatherhood is a difficult concept to understand. But a true father cares for his children. When a father sees his children suffering, his heart breaks with longing to fix the problem, to make things right, and to comfort his child. The idea of fatherhood began with God, so it makes sense that as the ultimate Father, God would feel our grief as much or more than we do.
In the midst of our grief, God comes with “revelations of His matchless grace.” When do we need grace and comfort? Only in times of grief are many of us open to receive the grace of God. When things are going well, we don’t feel a need for comfort. God wants to become our Comforter in times of grief if we will allow Him. But there is more. God wants to “send us forth as delivered.” God is not merely Comforter but also Deliverer. When Peter was walking on the water toward Jesus and his faith failed, Peter prayed a very simple prayer, “Lord, save me!”
Today you may be caught in terrible problems. You feel that you are drowning in oceans of grief. Or you are in the middle of a terrible situation and see no way out. Do not be afraid! Your Comforter and Deliverer is near and ready to save and deliver. Only turn to Him.
PRAYER: Father, today many of your children are grieving. Sorrow threatens to overwhelm them. Many are caught in situations from which they see no escape. Lord, save us! Lord, deliver us! Lord, comfort us! In the mighty Name of Jesus. Amen.