Matthew 7:9 “ Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? 10 Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? 11 If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him! 12 So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.”
When Jesus begins to talk about accidentally giving your child a stone instead of bread or a snake instead of fish, it sounds weird! How could anybody make such foolish mistakes? But please remember that in those days, houses had only small oil lamps for light. In the dim light of such lamps, it might be easy to pick up a rock instead of a piece of bread. There were lots of snakes in those days and they made their way into houses very easily. In semi – darkness, a coiled up snake might resemble a fish…until it uncoiled and either slithered away or bit someone! Still, Jesus is certain that caring parents would do everything they could to make sure they were giving the right thing to their child.
Many times things happen and we want to blame God! “Why would God let my mother suffer with cancer?” “Why did I have to have a car accident?” “Why did my friend die at an early age with a heart attack?” We neglect the fact that we are in a fallen sinful world and that bad things are bound to happen. And sometimes the bad things that happen actually occur because we have failed to do something or have made wrong decisions.
Whether or not we believe it, God is the ultimate Father. The very idea of Fatherhood comes from God, who is the original Father. And good fathers give good things to their children. Now Jesus takes things a step further; he reminds us that if we want God to do good things for us, or if we want others to be good to us, we must first be good to them. Once more, we are reminded that the measure we give out is the measure that we will receive, or as one of my friends puts it, “What goes around, comes around.”
PRAYER: Father God, thank you for your watch care! Thank you for your goodness! Thank you for your loving kindness! Thank you that you do care for us and that you are still working even in times when we see only tragedy. Help us to always give out the love and encouragement that we want from others. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.
