
Intermarriage with Neighboring Peoples (Nehemiah 13:23-31)
“After these things had been accomplished, the leaders approached me and said, “The people of Israel, including the priests and Levites, have not kept themselves separate from the surrounding peoples whose abominations are like those of the Canaanites, Hittites, Perizzites, Jebusites, Ammonites, Moabites, Egyptians, and Amorites. Indeed, the Israelites have taken some of their daughters as wives for themselves and their sons, so that the holy seed has been mixed with the people of the land. And the leaders and officials have taken the lead in this unfaithfulness!”
When I heard this report, I tore my tunic and cloak, pulled out some hair from my head and beard, and sat down in horror.
Then everyone who trembled at the words of the God of Israel gathered around me because of the unfaithfulness of the exiles, while I sat there in horror until the evening offering.
Ezra’s Prayer of Confession
At the evening offering, I got up from my humiliation with my tunic and cloak torn, and I fell on my knees, spread out my hands to the LORD my God, and said:
“O my God, I am ashamed and embarrassed to lift up my face to You, my God, because our iniquities are higher than our heads, and our guilt has reached the heavens. From the days of our fathers to this day, our guilt has been great. Because of our iniquities, we and our kings and our priests have been delivered into the hands of the kings of the earth and put to the sword and captivity, to pillage and humiliation, as we are this day.
But now, for a brief moment, grace has come from the LORD our God to preserve for us a remnant and to give us a stake in His holy place. Even in our bondage, our God has given us new life and light to our eyes. Though we are slaves, our God has not forsaken us in our bondage, but He has extended to us grace in the sight of the kings of Persia, giving us new life to rebuild the house of our God and repair its ruins, and giving us a wall of protection in Judah and Jerusalem.
And now, our God, what can we say after this? For we have forsaken the commandments that You gave through Your servants the prophets, saying: ‘The land you are entering to possess is a land polluted by the impurity of its peoples and the abominations with which they have filled it from end to end. Now, therefore, do not give your daughters in marriage to their sons or take their daughters for your sons. Never seek their peace or prosperity, so that you may be strong and may eat the good things of the land, leaving it as an inheritance to your sons forever.’
After all that has come upon us because of our evil deeds and our great guilt (though You, our God, have punished us less than our iniquities deserve and have given us such a remnant as this), shall we again break Your commandments and intermarry with the peoples who commit these abominations? Would You not become so angry with us as to wipe us out, leaving no remnant or survivor?
O LORD, God of Israel, You are righteous! For we remain this day as a remnant. Here we are before You in our guilt, though because of it no one can stand before You.”
Just when Ezra was happy about returning to Jerusalem safely with the enormous treasure granted by King Artaxerxes, he learned something terrible had happened. The exiles who had already returned from Babylon had wasted no time in intermarrying with those people whom the Babylonians had brought in from other places, in spite of God’s commands against such practices. Worse still, the priests and Levites, leaders and officials had taken the lead, marrying local women and contracting marriages for their sons with the local people.
These local people were idolaters who had been plucked out of their own countries to resettle Israel and Judah when those people went into exile. These people learned to worship the God of Israel, but only added Him to the pantheon of gods whom they were already serving. The Mosaic Law forbade Israelites from marrying outside the faith because such marriages would lead to apostasy. What could Ezra possibly do?
“When I heard this report, I tore my tunic and cloak, pulled out some hair from my head and beard, and sat down in horror. Then everyone who trembled at the words of the God of Israel gathered around me because of the unfaithfulness of the exiles, while I sat there in horror until the evening offering.” Ezra’s first act was one of profound grief, followed by a time of silent reflection. Then at the time of the evening offering, Ezra knelt and prayed on behalf of his people.
Note the points of Ezra’s prayer:
- Ezra acknowledged that his people had sinned greatly, causing God to send them into exile in the first place.
- God had extended grace to the Jews, allowing them to return to rebuild Judah and Jerusalem, despite their previous sins.
- Ezra lamented the fact that the Jews had forsaken God’s commandments, even after seeing the results of having done so.
- Ezra recognized that God might become so angry at the Jews having intermarried with the local people that this time He might wipe them off the face of the earth completely.
- Finally, Ezra honored the righteousness of God and the guilt of the Jews.
APPLICATION: When leaders fail, what can the people under them do? Throughout the world, current leaders are failing their people. Corruption, human rights abuses, mishandling of state monies – when leaders become wicked, those under them may readily follow their example.
God had warned the Jews not to intermarry with non – Jews, and priests and Levites were to follow even more stringent rules when considering potential spouses. Leviticus 21:13 – 15 says this about priests marrying: “‘The woman he marries must be a virgin. He must not marry a widow, a divorced woman, or a woman defiled by prostitution, but only a virgin from his own people, so that he will not defile his offspring among his people. I am the Lord, who makes him holy.’” But the priests and Levites who had returned from Babylon totally ignored God’s commands, setting themselves up for spiritual disaster. It is mothers, not fathers, who teach children much of their religion.
Although much has been said and written about Daniel’s prayers of intercession for his people, Ezra’s prayer might serve as a model for many of us.
PRAYER: “Oh, Lord, God of heaven and earth. We come before you as citizens of __________ country. We confess that our leaders and our people have sinned by _____________. Because of these sins, our country is facing the following problems: _________________. You have been gracious to us and patient with us; meanwhile, we have turned our backs on You and have refused to follow Your commandments. Lord, we have no excuses. Our national sins are so atrocious that You would be fully justified in wiping us off the face of the earth. Lord, You alone are righteous. You alone are just. You alone are the Holy One. We have nothing we can say in our defense; all we can do is to confess our national sins and beg for Your mercy, Your grace, and Your forgiveness. In the mighty and precious Name of King Jesus. Amen.















