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NOVEMBER 5 2025 “BUT GOD, DO I REALLY HAVE TO OBEY YOU? WHY? #30 DOES GOD CARE ABOUT SEX? YOU BET! HE INVENTED IT!

November 5, 2025

Deuteronomy 22:13-19 Laws governing sex

If a man marries a woman, sleeps with her, and then turns on her, calling her loose, giving her a bad name, saying, “I married this woman, but when I slept with her, I discovered she wasn’t a virgin,” then the father and mother of the girl are to take her with the proof of her virginity to the town leaders at the gate. The father is to tell the leaders, “I gave my daughter to this man as wife and he turned on her, rejecting her. And now he has slanderously accused her, claiming that she wasn’t a virgin. But look at this, here is the proof of my daughter’s virginity.” And then he is to spread out her bloodstained wedding garment before the leaders for their examination. The town leaders then are to take the husband, whip him, fine him a hundred pieces of silver, and give it to the father of the girl. The man gave a virgin girl of Israel a bad name. He has to keep her as his wife and can never divorce her.

20-21 But if it turns out that the accusation is true and there is no evidence of the girl’s virginity, the men of the town are to take her to the door of her father’s house and stone her to death. She acted disgracefully in Israel. She lived like a whore while still in her parents’ home. Purge the evil from among you.

What must it have been like to be a woman in Bible times? If your husband tired of you, he could accuse you of premarital sex in hopes that you would be disgraced and even stoned by the men of the town! The only protection a girl had was the “proofs of her virginity,” that is, the blood on the wedding garments from the wedding night when her husband would perforate her hymen with his penis. The problem is that sometimes the hymen is very rudimentary. And what if a wicked man makes away with the blood-stained wedding garment? Premarital sex for females is completely forbidden, while lying about a virtuous girl also carries severe penalties-whipping and a heavy fine. But at the end, the man must keep the girl as his wife. What will happen to a girl whose husband has bent every effort to discredit her and have her stoned? What will be her fate and the fate of her children?

22 If a man is found sleeping with another man’s wife, both must die. Purge that evil from Israel. Adultery is expressly forbidden. Remember that later when the Pharisees catch a woman in adultery and drag her to Jesus, somehow the man isn’t even mentioned. Hmmm. Is he another Pharisee?

23-24 If a man comes upon a virgin in town, a girl who is engaged to another man, and sleeps with her, take both of them to the town gate and stone them until they die—the girl because she didn’t yell out for help in the town and the man because he raped her, violating the fiancée of his neighbor. You must purge the evil from among you.

25-27 But if it was out in the country that the man found the engaged girl and grabbed and raped her, only the man is to die, the man who raped her. Don’t do anything to the girl; she did nothing wrong. This is similar to the case of a man who comes across his neighbor out in the country and murders him; when the engaged girl yelled out for help, there was no one around to hear or help her.

I have always found these laws to be cruel. What if the man gags the girl so that she cannot cry out? The poor girl might be killed while innocent.

28-29 When a man comes upon a virgin who has never been engaged and grabs and rapes her and they are found out, the man who raped her has to give her father fifty pieces of silver. He has to marry her because he took advantage of her. And he can never divorce her.

30 A man may not marry his father’s ex-wife—that would violate his father’s rights.

Again, what kind of a future does a virgin who has been raped have when her rapist is forced to marry her? Such practices have not been limited to Bible times. I am aware of a situation in one small town where a virtuous girl was forced to marry her rapist, perhaps because he was a pastor’s son. Although that lady was as good and sweet and kind as she could be, her husband remained a bitter man and a possible sexual predator.

God forbids a man to marry his stepmother. This would be a form of incest, a sin that God hates.

We might find some of these laws shocking; however, by standards of the time, they were lenient. Traditionally, women caught in any compromising situation might be killed immediately without trials, investigations, or any kind of protection. At the same time, such laws would also ensure that virgins would be accompanied by male relatives whenever they went out in public, also for their protection.

Today, abduction and sexual trafficking have become major threats. Kidnappers are now targeting stores such as Walmart and Target and grocery stores even in small cities. Such horrific crimes should not be tolerated in any society. Let us pray that God will bring revival throughout America and throughout the world so that such actions will become matters of history rather than current events.

PRAYER: Father God, thank You for loving us and caring for us. Lord, please send revival throughout the world. Protect the vulnerable, particularly women and children. In the mighty and precious Name of King Jesus. Amen.

NOVEMBER 4, 2025 “BUT GOD, DO I REALLY HAVE TO OBEY YOU? WHY? #29 YOU MUST HELP OTHERS-NO EXCUSES!

November 4, 2025

Deuteronomy 22

22 1-3 If you see your kinsman’s ox or sheep wandering off loose, don’t look the other way as if you didn’t see it. Return it promptly. If your fellow Israelite is not close by or you don’t know whose it is, take the animal home with you and take care of it until your fellow asks about it. Then return it to him. Do the same if it’s his donkey or a piece of clothing or anything else your fellow Israelite loses. Don’t look the other way as if you didn’t see it.

4 If you see your fellow’s donkey or ox injured along the road, don’t look the other way. Help him get it up and on its way.

Not only has God commanded the Israelites to avoid envying their neighbors’ possessions, but now He’s ordering them to take care of stray or injured animals. It’s not permissible for someone to find their neighbor’s donkey wandering on the road and quietly collect it without informing the neighbor. Lost items of all kinds are to be handled the same way. “Don’t look the other way as if you didn’t see it.” Sins of omission are just as deadly as sins of commission.

“5 A woman must not wear a man’s clothing, nor a man wear women’s clothing. This kind of thing is an abomination to God, your God.” David Guzik in his Enduring Word Commentary explains this verse this way: There are ways for men to deliberately dress like women, and for women to dress like men. When this is done, it goes against God’s principles as revealed in His commandments and is disruptive to natural order.

ii. This is not a command against women wearing a garment that in some ways might be common between men and women. A woman can wear trousers without looking like a man. It is a command against dressing in a manner which deliberately crosses or blurs the distinction between the sexes.

iii. “As elsewhere, Scripture considers the natural differences between male and female to be the Lord’s creation and so should not be disregarded or camouflaged.” (Kalland)

“6-7 When you come across a bird’s nest alongside the road, whether in a tree or on the ground, and the mother is sitting on the young or on the eggs, don’t take the mother with the young. You may take the babies, but let the mother go so that you will live a good and long life.” Here God lays out principles of conservation. Sparing the mother ensures that there will be more eggs and more young, but to take the mother and the eggs or the mother and the young means wiping out those birds completely.

8 “When you build a new house, make a parapet around your roof to make it safe so that someone doesn’t fall off and die and your family become responsible for the death.” Flat roofs were very common in Bible times and were used as places to dry grain and even as auxiliary sitting rooms. But a flat roof without a railing is an invitation to a disaster and embarrassment and ruin to the family, as well as to visitors.

9 Don’t plant two kinds of seed in your vineyard. If you do, you will forfeit what you’ve sown, the total production of the vineyard.

10 Don’t plow with an ox and a donkey yoked together.

11 Don’t wear clothes of mixed fabrics, wool and linen together.

At first, we read these laws and scratch our heads. What’s the big deal here? But the Canaanites used combinations of seeds, animals, and fabrics to achieve mystical spiritual results. These combinations were thought to give spiritual power. God wants His people to depend on Him alone and not on occultic practices. Guzik remarks, “The apostle Paul later expressed the principle of this command like this: Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14) Those to whom Paul was writing were well acquainted with the occultic practices of yoking different animals together. God wants His people to be completely holy without any compromise.

The question for us is this: Are we compromising to go along with popular culture? Do we wear jewelry or special garments in hopes of impressing people and thereby gaining influence or power over them? Are we entering into agreements with those whose ethics are murky? Are we arguing ourselves into association with those whom we know to be spiritually dark? Do we even pride ourselves in “walking on the wild side,” rebelling against convention as if rebellion in and of itself is virtuous?

“12 Make tassels on the four corners of the cloak you use to cover yourself.” God wants His people to be immediately identifiable by their mode of dress. Even today, ultra-observant Jews will still wear tassels. Of course, the tassel issue could be carried to extremes. Jesus criticized the Pharisees for enlarging the borders of their garments to show everyone how spiritual they were. (Matthew 23:5) While God is not demanding we wear tassels, does our mode of dress honor Him?

We have a close friend who is a Muslim, and we have had many fascinating discussions about the way so-called Christian young people dress, even when they attend church. The dress of many young church-going women horrifies our Muslim friend. These days, even in villages, young ladies may be wearing low-cut dresses with tight short skirts. One famous Christian musician has stopped singing during offering time at his church because he has found the low-cut dresses of the ladies parading forward with their offerings to be too distracting. Forty years ago, we lived in mid-town Memphis, Tennessee, and the prostitutes practiced their trade half a block from our house. These days, some of these “Christian” young ladies are dressing like those prostitutes. Sorry, folks, but it’s possible to look beautiful without looking like a sex worker.

Throughout this chapter, God continues to stress that He desires His people to be holy, to be concerned for others, and to be proactive in their care for the belongings of others. God does not want His people engaging in any practices that might open them up to demonic attack. May we continually look heavenward, so that we will please God in all aspects of our lives.

PRAYER: Father God, thank You for loving us and caring for us. Lord, help us to live lives that honor You. In the mighty and precious Name of King Jesus. Amen.

NOVEMBER 3, 2025 “BUT GOD, DO I REALLY HAVE TO OBEY YOU? WHY? #28 KEEPING THE PROMISED LAND PURE

November 3, 2025

Deuteronomy 21

1-8 Purifying the land after a killing by an unknown murderer: If a dead body is found on the ground, this ground that God, your God, has given you, lying out in the open, and no one knows who killed him, your leaders and judges are to go out and measure the distance from the body to the nearest cities. The leaders and judges of the city that is nearest the corpse will then take a heifer that has never been used for work, never had a yoke on it. The leaders will take the heifer to a valley with a stream, a valley that has never been plowed or planted, and there break the neck of the heifer. The Levitical priests will then step up. God has chosen them to serve him in these matters by settling legal disputes and violent crimes and by pronouncing blessings in God’s name. Finally, all the leaders of that town that is nearest the body will wash their hands over the heifer that had its neck broken at the stream and say, “We didn’t kill this man and we didn’t see who did it. Purify your people Israel whom you redeemed, O God. Clear your people Israel from any guilt in this murder.”

8-9 That will clear them from any responsibility in the murder. By following these procedures, you will have absolved yourselves of any part in the murder because you will have done what is right in God’s sight.

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The shedding of innocent blood brings curses on a land. Here God makes provision for unforeseen tragedy-the discovery of a murder victim with no murderer in sight. The leaders and judges of the nearest city will work together with the Levitical priests, offering a heifer as a sacrifice to atone for the sin of murder.

How spiritually pervasive is the sin of murder? We have lived in three different American cities that were former centers of the slave trade. In each of those places, there were sections of town that were spiritually clean and other sections that were so soaked in evil that even passing through those areas was nerve-wracking. We lived in an apartment in New Orleans that had such terrible spiritual heaviness that we were sure someone had murdered someone there. We had to do spiritual warfare daily to cleanse the place so that we could tolerate being there.

Compassion toward female captives in wartime 10-14 When you go to war against your enemies and God, your God, gives you victory and you take prisoners, and then you notice among the prisoners of war a good-looking woman whom you find attractive and would like to marry, this is what you do: Take her home; have her trim her hair, cut her nails, and discard the clothes she was wearing when captured. She is then to stay in your home for a full month, mourning her father and mother. Then you may go to bed with her as husband and wife. If it turns out you don’t like her, you must let her go and live wherever she wishes. But you can’t sell her or use her as a slave since you’ve humiliated her.

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Beautiful young women were valued as spoils of war; however, what happened once the soldiers took these women home? God cares about such women and demands that they be well treated, giving them a month to mourn her father and mother before the soldier can sleep with her. If the relationship fails to work out, the woman must be free to leave without the threat of slavery.

15-17 When a man has two wives, one loved and the other hated, and they both give him sons, but the firstborn is from the hated wife, at the time he divides the inheritance with his sons he must not treat the son of the loved wife as the firstborn, cutting out the son of the hated wife, who is the actual firstborn. No, he must acknowledge the inheritance rights of the real firstborn, the son of the hated wife, by giving him a double share of the inheritance: that son is the first proof of his virility; the rights of the firstborn belong to him.

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While there are those who argue in favor of polygamy, the reality may be grim. Here God warns that a firstborn son is a firstborn son, whether his mother is the father’s favorite wife. The firstborn is to receive all the rights due him, no matter what. Here in Ghana, we have witnessed terrible treatment of children from unfavorite wives, including watching as an unfavorite wife was forced to stand in the hot noonday sun for ninety minutes, waiting for her husband to agree to pay her children’s school fees. Maintaining one’s status as a favorite wife is not easy either, for there is always the chance that the husband will find a younger cuter lady to wed, demoting the current wives in the process.

18-20 When a man has a stubborn son, a real rebel who won’t do a thing his mother and father tell him, and even though they discipline him he still won’t obey, his father and mother shall forcibly bring him before the leaders at the city gate and say to the city fathers, “This son of ours is a stubborn rebel; he won’t listen to a thing we say. He’s a glutton and a drunk.”

21 Then all the men of the town are to throw rocks at him until he’s dead. You will have purged the evil pollution from among you. All Israel will hear what’s happened and be in awe.

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Forget “touchy-feely” parenting! God has no patience with disobedient rebels who disgrace the family. We don’t know how many times this injunction was carried out; however, the mere threat of it should have been enough to bring many potential rebels into line.

22-23 When a man has committed a capital crime, been given the death sentence, executed and hung from a tree, don’t leave his dead body hanging overnight from the tree. Give him a decent burial that same day so that you don’t desecrate your God-given land—a hanged man is an insult to God.

Here God assumes that someone committing a capital crime such as murder will be hanged; however, even in death, the body of the murderer deserves respect. This command continued to be observed even up through Jesus’ day, for the bodies of crucified criminals had to be removed before sundown. The soldiers broke the legs of the other men crucified with Jesus so that they would die from asphyxiation, being unable to raise themselves up to take deep breaths; however, Jesus was already dead so there was no need to break his legs.

What shines through all these various commands is God’s concern for the sanctity of His creation and His concern for the disadvantaged, such as women captured in battle. God wants His land to remain spiritually clean, for He knows that failure to discipline rebellion, failure to protect the vulnerable, and failure to cleanse the land will pollute the land with demons.

What lessons might we gain from this collection of commands? We must be careful to avoid polluting our homes and work places with violent or pornographic material from social media. Thirty-five years ago, we visited a Christian friend and I borrowed her computer. When I entered the small room where the computer was located, I immediately felt an evil presence. I prayed and rebuked the devil; however, I suspected that someone-perhaps a visiting teen-ager- might have been the culprit. As a small child, I learned a song in Sunday School that applies. “Oh be careful, little eyes, what you see. Oh be careful, little eyes, what you see. For the Father up above is looking down in love, so be careful, little eyes, what you see.” Simple but true.

PRAYER: Father God, thank You for loving us and caring for us. Lord, help us to honor You in every bit of our lives. In the mighty and precious Name of King Jesus. Amen.

DON’T GIVE YOUR HEART TO A CAT-REFLECTIONS ON MR. CAT NOVEMBER 2, 2025

November 2, 2025

It’s 2:30 AM. Two weeks ago, I would have heard persistent mewing from our back verandah, where Mr. Cat, the ruler of our household, would have been insisting on being let into the house and fed early. But tonight there is only silence. At 4 PM yesterday, Mr. Cat crossed the rainbow bridge, leaving holes in our hearts bigger than he was. Now our household is haunted by memories of all Mr. Cat’s favorite resting places-the top of my dresser, the top of our microwave in the kitchen, the couches in our sitting room. Somehow, it feels as if he’s still with us, watching over us, protecting us. There’s a phrase describing the circumstances when the veil between heaven and earth is very faint-living in a thin place. When you work where we do, caring for the poor and the sick, that veil becomes extremely thin much of the time.

We think Mr. Cat joined our family as a small grey and white tabby kitten six years ago. We actually tried to give him other names; however, he demanded respect and wound up as Mr. Cat for his entire career with us. There were a few other names, Stink-a-roo-roo, shortened to Roo, and Gyata Ketewa. “Gyata Ketewa” is Twi for “little lion,” and the name fit for he had a lion’s heart in a kitty body. As the cat grew, he developed a distinct personality-there were times when he demanded attention and then there were times when he absolutely did not want it. Although I passionately love kitties, Mr. Cat chose my husband Bob as his person, sometimes driving Bob crazy in his insistence on lying at Bob’s feet, no matter where Bob was sitting or walking. We have huge collections of photos of Mr. Cat on Bob’s lap or stretched out on the bed next to Bob.

Mr. Cat was an intrepid hunter of rats, lizards, and the occasional bird. We fed him mashed up mackerel, and we are now tormenting ourselves with the possibility that we might have accidentally fed our beloved pet some bad mackerel that triggered kidney failure. We truly don’t know what happened; we only know that over the course of about two weeks, Mr. Cat went from being healthy to being unable to eat or drink and dying despite our best efforts.

When talking about cats, it is difficult to say whether you own them or they own you. Generally, cats are the owners, and we are only servants. We fed Mr. Cat his mackerel religiously twice a day and also supplied kulikuli for him. Kulikuli is a local snack food made of groundnut paste mixed with flour and deep fried; it’s crunchy and nutritious. We also kept water bowls in several different places so the cat had plenty of access to clean water.

Watching Mr. Cat was one of our favorite activities. Cats are elegant creatures with enormous numbers of muscles controlling their ears, their tails, and their distinctive gait. In his prime, Mr. Cat could jump at least five feet straight up effortlessly and look incredibly graceful while doing so. As a typical predator, Mr. Cat loved to sit on high places where he could survey the landscape, and the top of my dresser and the top of our microwave were two of his favorites because he could look out the windows in both places.

Mr. Cat had several favorite resting places around our house. As a tiny kitten, Mr. Cat was fond of sneaking inside my tablet when I had it folded because it gave him a den. Another such place was our garage full of tools and odd equipment. Mr. Cat would slither under the garage door to get in, but his favorite means of exit was to jump out of a ventilation hole on the side of the garage. Mr. Cat also loved to sleep in the sunshine on an old hand cart in our back yard. Yet another place was the top of our washing machine on the enclosed back verandah. Mr. Cat slept there so much that we had a special blanket on top of the washing machine just for his comfort. No matter where Mr. Cat was, when we would return home, he would come running, jump through one of the ventilation holes on the back verandah, and then sit in front of the kitchen door, demanding to be let in.

Whether because of genetics or because we didn’t feed large numbers of treats, Mr. Cat probably never weighed more than 3 kg. But his spirit was much bigger than his body, and we loved him dearly. Now we are left with vivid memories, large numbers of photos, and holes in our hearts.

The British writer Rudyard Kipling was a passionate dog lover and once wrote a poem entitled “Don’t Give Your Heart to a Dog.” The poem was written after Kipling lost a treasured pet, and of course, the title was highly ironic, for Kipling had obviously given his heart to a scrap of a mut not much bigger than Mr. Cat. Will we get another cat? Not immediately. We need time to grieve our loss and to deal with our guilt as we relentlessly pummel ourselves with questions: Did we accidentally expose our cat to something harmful? Was it the bad mackerel? Was it distemper? Parvovirus? Feline leukemia? Our local veterinary officers are focused on large animals and fowls; however, cats are not something they deal with frequently. And then there’s the question of cost. We spend significant sums of money each week assisting indigent patients with their expenses. It sounds harsh, but if we had to choose paying for human children to get well over paying for our cat, we would have to trust God to care for the cat.

Through the years, we have been blessed to be owned by many wonderful pets of various kinds. Romans 8:19-22 tells us, “For all creation is waiting eagerly for that future day when God will reveal who his children really are. Against its will, all creation was subjected to God’s curse. But with eager hope, the creation looks forward to the day when it will join God’s children in glorious freedom from death and decay. For we know that all creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time.”  People sinned and God had to subject all creation to the curse of that sin. But one day, the creation will join God’s children in glorious freedom from death and decay. I firmly believe that all creation will be redeemed and that we will see our beloved pets in heaven, where we will be able to communicate with them as Adam and Eve did with the animals before the Fall.

By now, you must realize that the title of this piece is every bit as ironic as the title of Kipling’s poem. We love our pets and give our hearts to them, even though we know that our time with them might be short. But love is never wasted, nor does it decay. We are grieving the loss of our beloved pet, but we will treasure forever the memories of his life with us. And we do believe we will see him in heaven when all creation will be redeemed. For now, we have given Mr. Cat to Jesus, and we hope our little lion is playing among the stars. And in the words Ashantis say to their departed loved ones: Damirifa due, due, due! Gyata Ketewa! Sleep well, little lion! Sleep well, Mr. Cat!

NOVEMBER 2, 2025 “BUT GOD, DO I REALLY HAVE TO OBEY YOU? WHY? #27 WHEN GOING TO WAR, DON’T TAKE COWARDS WITH YOU!

November 2, 2025

20 1-4 When you go to war against your enemy and see horses and chariots and soldiers far outnumbering you, do not recoil in fear of them; God, your God, who brought you up out of Egypt is with you. When the battle is about to begin, let the priest come forward and speak to the troops. He’ll say, “Attention, Israel. In a few minutes you’re going to do battle with your enemies. Don’t waver in resolve. Don’t fear. Don’t hesitate. Don’t panic. God, your God, is right there with you, fighting with you against your enemies, fighting to win.”

People have lousy memories! Those fleeing Egypt watched as God drowned one of the largest most powerful armies in the entire Middle East. But that was then and this is now, and some of those who witnessed that miracle have refused to teach their children and grandchildren of the wonders of God. So now, the Israelites are gathered on the east side of the Jordan while Moses has to remind them of those things that should be in the forefront of their minds.

It’s tempting to criticize the Israelites; yet, how many times have we been guilty of the same thing-doubting God’s infinite power, even though He has delivered us so many times? We aren’t any better than those Israelites.

5-7 Then let the officers step up and speak to the troops: “Is there a man here who has built a new house but hasn’t yet dedicated it? Let him go home right now lest he die in battle and another man dedicate it. And is there a man here who has planted a vineyard but hasn’t yet enjoyed the grapes? Let him go home right now lest he die in battle and another man enjoy the grapes. Is there a man here engaged to marry who hasn’t yet taken his wife? Let him go home right now lest he die in battle and another man take her.”

8 The officers will then continue, “And is there a man here who is wavering in resolve and afraid? Let him go home right now so that he doesn’t infect his fellows with his timidity and cowardly spirit.”

Jesus told his disciples that “No one who puts a hand to the plow and looks back is fit for service in the kingdom of God.’” (Luke 62:9) God wants to make certain that anybody serving in the army is doing so whole-heartedly, not wishing he was somewhere else. God knows that courage is catching but so are cowardice and indifference.

Personal testimony: Recently, there have been several extremely witty videos on Facebook from various sections of the “We Do Not Care” Club. Older ladies throughout the planet are proclaiming that they are fed up with meeting unreal expectations and that they are doing the best they can, just the way they are. I had watched a number of these videos when I realized that I was beginning to parrot, “I DO NOT CARE!” The problem was that there were things about which I had to care because nobody else would. As funny as the videos are and as much as they are blessing ladies throughout the world, I have had to stop watching them, lest the “I do not care” attitude affect my work and my attitude towards my patients and family.

9 When the officers have finished speaking to the troops, let them appoint commanders of the troops who shall muster them by units.

10-15 When you come up against a city to attack it, call out, “Peace?” If they answer, “Yes, peace!” and open the city to you, then everyone found there will be conscripted as forced laborers and work for you. But if they don’t settle for peace and insist on war, then go ahead and attack. God, your God, will give them to you. Kill all the men with your swords. But don’t kill the women and children and animals. Everything inside the town you can take as plunder for you to use and eat—God, your God, gives it to you. This is the way you deal with the distant towns, the towns that don’t belong to the nations at hand.

16-18 But with the towns of the people that God, your God, is giving you as an inheritance, it’s different: don’t leave anyone alive. Consign them to holy destruction: the Hittites, Amorites, Canaanites, Perizzites, Hivites, and Jebusites, obeying the command of God, your God. This is so there won’t be any of them left to teach you to practice the abominations that they engage in with their gods and you end up sinning against God, your God.

19-20 When you mount an attack on a town and the siege goes on a long time, don’t start cutting down the trees, swinging your axes against them. Those trees are your future food; don’t cut them down. Are trees soldiers who come against you with weapons? The exception can be those trees which don’t produce food; you can chop them down and use the timbers to build siege engines against the town that is resisting you until it falls.”

Notice the distinction between cities that are simply to be conquered in contrast to tribes designated for annihilation. The Hittites, Amorites, Canaanites, Perizzites, Hivites, and Jebusites are to be wiped out completely-don’t leave anyone alive. But when the Israelites conquer other cities, they are to spare the women and children while killing all the men. They are also allowed to take the spoils from both kinds of cities. Reading Genesis, you realize that Abraham was friends with some of the Amorite chiefs who were noble men. But God tells Abraham that his descendants will not return from Egypt “until the iniquity of the Amorites is complete.” This means that for generations, there may have been God-fearing Amorites, perhaps having been influenced by association with Abraham. Sadly, even the Amorites have become degenerate and now require complete destruction.

God cares for fruit trees! God warns His people that when they are going to mount a siege, they should spare all the fruit trees, using only those trees that do not bear fruit for their siege engines. God doesn’t want His people to get so carried away with war lust that they forget that life will continue after the battle ends.

These verses might serve as a warning to those of us who become so goal-oriented that we forge the environment in which we function. These days, solar farms have become quite popular, and I applaud the advent of solar energy. But I also agree with those who argue for placing these panels on rooftops rather than on productive farm land. America has been blessed with some of the greatest farm land in the world; yet, much of it has already been covered with cement as the suburbs have burgeoned. Why sacrifice more of this glorious land when solar panels can be placed anywhere?

Sound advice about the psychology of warriors, the need to eliminate spiritual enemies, and concern for the environment-this chapter is short but packed. And through it all, the Love of God continues to shine through. “But,” you reply, “God is ordering the destruction of some of those tribes.” True, but evidently, those tribes have become so depraved that they require destruction. We should take the destruction of those tribes as warnings for ourselves. Are we worshiping God and following Him, or pursuing our own selfish interests? Only those who confess their sins and turn to God can be spared. But confessions can be extremely simple. Remember the thief on the cross who had a simple conversation with Jesus through which he gained heaven. “God, be merciful to me, a sinner!” still will gain you heaven.

PRAYER:  Father God, thank You for loving us and caring for us. Lord, we confess that we are sinners and that nothing good lives in us. But You are merciful, and You have sent Jesus to die for our sins. We accept Jesus’ sacrifice, begging you to forgive us and help us to love and serve You forever. In the mighty and precious Name of King Jesus. Amen.

NOVEMBER 1, 2025 “BUT GOD, DO I REALLY HAVE TO OBEY YOU? WHY? #26 WE ALL NEED PLACES OF REFUGE!

November 1, 2025

Deuteronomy 19:1-13 Cities of Refuge

1-3 When God, your God, throws the nations out of the country that God, your God, is giving you and you settle down in their cities and houses, you are to set aside three easily accessible cities in the land that God, your God, is giving you as your very own. Divide your land into thirds, this land that God, your God, is giving you to possess, and build roads to the towns so that anyone who accidentally kills another can flee there.

4-7 This is the guideline for the murderer who flees there to take refuge: He has to have killed his neighbor without premeditation and with no history of bad blood between them. For instance, a man goes with his neighbor into the woods to cut a tree; he swings the ax, the head slips off the handle and hits his neighbor, killing him. He may then flee to one of these cities and save his life. If the city is too far away, the avenger of blood racing in hot-blooded pursuit might catch him since it’s such a long distance, and kill him even though he didn’t deserve it. It wasn’t his fault. There was no history of hatred between them. Therefore I command you: Set aside the three cities for yourselves.

8-10 When God, your God, enlarges your land, extending its borders as he solemnly promised your ancestors, by giving you the whole land he promised them because you are diligently living the way I’m commanding you today, namely, to love God, your God, and do what he tells you all your life; and when that happens, then add three more to these three cities so that there is no chance of innocent blood being spilled in your land. God, your God, is giving you this land as an inheritance—you don’t want to pollute it with innocent blood and bring guilt upon yourselves.

11-13 On the other hand, if a man with a history of hatred toward his neighbor waits in ambush, then jumps him, mauls and kills him, and then runs to one of these cities, that’s a different story. The elders of his own city are to send for him and have him brought back. They are to hand him over to the avenger of blood for execution. Don’t feel sorry for him. Clean out the pollution of wrongful murder from Israel so that you’ll be able to live well and breathe clean air.

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Why are cities of refuge so important? In Moses’ day, when someone dies, relatives and friends are obligated to avenge the death. Vengeance must be taken to cleanse the land from the stain of murder. Most of us fail to recognize that our actions leave spiritual impressions on the land we occupy, polluting it. Land that is loved behaves differently from land inhabited by murderers. Remember the story of Cane and Abel? God tells Cane that Abel’s blood is crying out from the ground

Here God draws a distinction between accidental deaths and premeditated murder, a distinction that has remained ever since. The American legal system recognizes three grades of murder: first degree, second degree, and third degree. First degree murder is the worst and implies malice aforethought and premeditation. Second degree murder occurs when the murderer intends to cause bodily harm but has not been plotting the murder. Third degree murder is similar to second degree and is only recognized in a few states. Third degree murder also involves an intent to harm but lacks premeditation. AN example of third-degree murder is a drug dealer who sells someone sufficient drugs for them to overdose. (https://loio.com/guides/personal/criminal-law/the-difference-between-1st-2nd-3rd-degree-murders/ )

God orders the Israelites to establish three cities of refuge and to build roads to these cities so that innocent people pursued by avengers might reach the cities safely. Eventually, God will also designate three cities on the east side of the Jordan for those living in that area. But not just anybody can gain refuge in these cities. If someone truly commits murder, the elders of his own city are to contact the elders of the city of refuge and demand the individual be sent back to them for justice to take place.

14 Don’t move your neighbor’s boundary markers, the longstanding landmarks set up by your pioneer ancestors defining their property.

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Remember that God eventually draws the boundaries for the various tribes and inheritances are sacred. Centuries later, Naboth defies King Ahab because Ahab demands Naboth give him the vineyard Naboth has inherited so Ahab can tear it up for a vegetable garden.

15 You cannot convict anyone of a crime or sin on the word of one witness. You need two or three witnesses to make a case.

16-21 If a hostile witness stands to accuse someone of a wrong, then both parties involved in the quarrel must stand in the Presence of God before the priests and judges who are in office at that time. The judges must conduct a careful investigation; if the witness turns out to be a false witness and has lied against his fellow Israelite, give him the same medicine he intended for the other party. Clean the polluting evil from your company. People will hear of what you’ve done and be impressed; that will put a stop to this kind of evil among you. Don’t feel sorry for the person: It’s life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot.

Although the idea of “an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth” seems too harsh to some of us, in many cultures, limiting vengeance in this fashion is quite moderate and a revelation. In Bible times, avengers might destroy as many people as possible or murder while the original damage was limited to a missing tooth. Even today, some cultures believe in wiping out entire families, not merely punishing individuals.

What of the injunction against false witness? God has already forbidden that in the Ten Commandments. God hates liars, and He particularly hates false witnesses who lie so an innocent person will suffer. Today, DNA evidence has helped free many wrongly convicted of crimes, but what will happen to those who have knowingly given false testimony? God will judge these people.

While God ordained cities of refuge for the Israelites, we all need places of refuge. Face it, folks, we mess up a lot. We say things we shouldn’t, do things we shouldn’t, and hurt people even when we have the best intentions. Psalm 130:3-4 tells us, “If you, God, kept records on wrongdoings, who would stand a chance? As it turns out, forgiveness is your habit, and that’s why you’re worshiped.”

1 John 1:8-10 tells us, “If we claim that we’re free of sin, we’re only fooling ourselves. A claim like that is errant nonsense. On the other hand, if we admit our sins—simply come clean about them—he won’t let us down; he’ll be true to himself. He’ll forgive our sins and purge us of all wrongdoing. If we claim that we’ve never sinned, we out-and-out contradict God—make a liar out of him. A claim like that only shows off our ignorance of God.”

Today, ask God to reveal your sins and then beg Him to forgive you and help you to change. Nothing is more freeing.

PRAYER: Father God, thank You for loving us and caring for us. Lord, open our eyes to our sins and help us to make full confession to You so that You can forgive us. In the mighty and precious Name of King Jesus. Amen.