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IN MEMORIAM: BOBBY WALTERS

March 12, 2026

1 Corinthians 15:51-58

But let me reveal to you a wonderful secret. We will not all die, but we will all be transformed! It will happen in a moment, in the blink of an eye, when the last trumpet is blown. For when the trumpet sounds, those who have died will be raised to live forever. And we who are living will also be transformed. For our dying bodies must be transformed into bodies that will never die; our mortal bodies must be transformed into immortal bodies.

Then, when our dying bodies have been transformed into bodies that will never die, this Scripture will be fulfilled:

“Death is swallowed up in victory. O death, where is your victory? O death, where is your sting?”

For sin is the sting that results in death, and the law gives sin its power. But thank God! He gives us victory over sin and death through our Lord Jesus Christ.

So, my dear brothers and sisters, be strong and immovable. Always work enthusiastically for the Lord, for you know that nothing you do for the Lord is ever useless.

Sometimes, the men who are the most effective are also the quietest ones in the room. Our friend Bobby was one of the quiet ones, not because he had nothing to say but because he was thoughtful, considering every word before opening his mouth.

Bobby was a true gentleman in every sense of the word. Highly intelligent with a sharp sense of humor, Bobby was one of those men who wait until everyone else had said everything they were going to say and would then make a short telling comment that would be far more effective than all the verbiage that others had already produced.

Bobby was a man of great faith, and he needed that faith. During the more than forty years we have been friends, we have seen Bobby and his wife Cindy face all kinds of challenges, including health problems and family problems of various kinds. When Bobby’s grandson Christopher died tragically in a car accident, Bobby and Cindy found themselves struggling with their own grief as they comforted others. Wherever Bobby and Cindy attended church, Bobby could always be found helping, quietly serving.

Bobby was a fond grandfather whose grandchildren are now posting tributes indicating their love for him. Never underestimate the influence of godly, loving grandparents, for they can be mighty healers when life wounds.

Live long enough and your friends and loved ones begin leaving you to take their places in heaven. While it is true that Christians do not grieve as those who have no hope, it is equally true that we fear the pain of separation and the loneliness when a life partner is no longer there. As we remember Bobby, we also pray for his family and especially for Cindy, his wife. And we beg God to fill family homes with His Holy Spirit and send angels to watch over family members.

PRAYER: Father God, thank You for loving us and caring for us. Lord, we praise You for the life of Bobby Walters even as we mourn his passing. You are infinitely kind and infinitely wise, and You have all our lives in Your hands. Lord, help us to continue to trust You. In the mighty and precious Name of King Jesus. Amen.

PRECIOUS LORD, TAKE MY HAND MARCH 12, 2026

March 12, 2026

We just lost a wonderful friend from our days at Faith United Methodist in Southaven, MS, Bobby Walters. While posting condolence messages, I saw another post from a friend, urging church worship leaders to consider incorporating older worship songs into services. The post continued that those songs might minister to people for they might be the songs sung at the funeral of a close relative or the songs that were sung the night a man fell to his knees and accepted Jesus. I agree whole-heartedly and also urge worship leaders truly passionate about their calling to study hymns and praise songs far older than the ones referred to in that post.

Forty years ago, we were part of a wonderful Spirit-filled congregation at Faith United Methodist in Southaven, MS. The Holy Spirit moved in remarkable ways, and the prayer times at the end of church were not to be missed, for anointed ministry might continue for hours. It’s a sad mistake to cram a prayer time into the middle of a service, for inevitably, the pastor will be tempted to keep things short. Unfortunately, sometimes Holy Spirit ministry can take a long time, and ten minutes in the midst of a service is like demanding a cow only eat two blades of grass. The agreement at Faith was that whoever was the last one out of the building should lock up.

In addition to Sunday morning services, Faith also had Sunday night services, and the ministry and teaching were wonderful. Sunday night was a time when people could share special music, and it was quite common for several people to do solos. I had been asked to sing at one Sunday night service, and I was busily checking out the accompaniment tape options at the local Christian bookstore. (Notice: tapes, not CDs or MP3 downloads; this is the 1980’s.) But when I prayed, the only title God would give me was the Thomas A. Dorsey song “Precious Lord, Take My Hand.” The song is simple and can be sung with or without accompaniment. I argued with the Lord because I wanted to show off, demonstrating my vocal abilities on something more challenging, but He wasn’t budging. So that Sunday night in 1986, when I got up to sing, I introduced the song by explaining that God obviously meant this song for someone in the congregation and that they would know it was for them. I sang; the congregation applauded enthusiastically; and the service eventually ended. That was when the late Nancy Jolley, one of my friends, rushed up to me. Nancy was practically hopping up and down and vibrating with excitement.


“That song was for me!” Nancy exclaimed. Then Nancy explained that she had just returned from her father’s funeral in Illinois and was still grieving. The phrase “Precious Lord, Take My Hand” was the inscription chosen by the family for her father’s tombstone. Nancy went on to say that she had nearly stayed home that Sunday night but felt compelled to come to church. Now Nancy was in tears as she realized that God was already preparing that song just for her.

Since that night in Southaven, MS, I have sung that song several times at funerals, including the funerals of my father-in law and both brothers-in law. I never sing it without being moved.

Thomas Andrew Dorsey is considered the Father of Gospel Music. Dorsey wrote this song upon learning that his wife had just died in childbirth while he was out of town at a meeting. With nowhere else to turn, Dorsey began praying, “Precious Lord, take my hand,” and God gave him the rest of the song. For a great introduction to Dorsey as well as other Gospel musicians, check out the video “Say Amen, Somebody!”

The song lyrics are as follows:

Precious Lord, take my hand,
Lead me on, let me stand,
I am tired, I am weak, I am worn;
Through the storm, through the night,
Lead me on to the light:

Refrain

Take my hand, precious Lord,
Lead me home.

When my way grows drear,
Precious Lord, linger near,
When my life is almost gone,
Hear my cry, hear my call,
Hold my hand lest I fall:

Refrain

When the darkness appears
And the night draws near,
And the day is past and gone,
At the river, I stand,
Guide my feet, hold my hand:

Refrain

For a wonderful performance of this song, view Mahalia Jackson singing it at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=as1rsZenwNc

So worship leaders, remember that while you might be thrilled by the latest and greatest Christian hits, ministry means you get yourself out of the way and let God work.

And Walters family-if you see this post, please let this song minister to you.

PRAYER: Father God, thank You for loving us and caring for us. Lord, as we reach out, please take our hands and lead us to our heavenly homes that You have prepared for us. In the mighty and precious Name of King Jesus. Amen.

MARCH 10, 2026 ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED FEBRUARY 26, 2023 “WHO KNOWS BUT WHAT YOU HAVE COME TO THE KINGDOM FOR SUCH A TIME AS THIS?#3 ESTHER 2:12-18 ESTHER WINS THE BEAUTY CONTEST BECAUSE OF HER MODESTY, NOT IN SPITE OF IT

March 10, 2026

Esther 2:12-18 “Before a young woman’s turn came to go in to King Xerxes, she had to complete twelve months of beauty treatments prescribed for the women, six months with oil of myrrh and six with perfumes and cosmetics. And this is how she would go to the king: Anything she wanted was given her to take with her from the harem to the king’s palace. In the evening she would go there and in the morning return to another part of the harem to the care of Shaashgaz, the king’s eunuch who was in charge of the concubines. She would not return to the king unless he was pleased with her and summoned her by name.

When the turn came for Esther (the young woman Mordecai had adopted, the daughter of his uncle Abihail) to go to the king, she asked for nothing other than what Hegai, the king’s eunuch who was in charge of the harem, suggested. And Esther won the favor of everyone who saw her. She was taken to King Xerxes in the royal residence in the tenth month, the month of Tebeth, in the seventh year of his reign.

Now the king was attracted to Esther more than to any of the other women, and she won his favor and approval more than any of the other virgins. So he set a royal crown on her head and made her queen instead of Vashti. And the king gave a great banquet, Esther’s banquet, for all his nobles and officials. He proclaimed a holiday throughout the provinces and distributed gifts with royal liberality.”

Twelve months! Twelve anxious months passed while Esther underwent the finest beauty treatments. Daily, Esther watched young women leave the harem to visit the king for one night, and daily she learned that yet another young woman had been sent to stay in the section of the harem reserved for the concubines. Daily, Mordecai continued casually walking past the courtyard of the harem in hopes of getting some word about Esther. The strain for both Mordecai and Esther must have been unthinkable. Daily, the two of them prayed for each other, begging God to bless and keep them and to one day unite them.

Esther watched as other young women carried all kinds of things with them from the harem to impress the king – jewelry, seductive clothing, special perfumes, musical instruments, and anything else the lady thought might make her stand out. Finally, Hegei informed Esther that it would be her turn tomorrow. “What should I take with me?” Esther asked Hegei. Hegei advised Esther, “Don’t worry about playing instruments or dancing, or making a big show. The king is really looking for someone loving, kind and virtuous, someone who will care about him and who can be counted on to be discrete. Your character, your grace, and your virtue shine from you, and those are the best things you can carry with you. For the rest of it, allow me to suggest the garments you should wear, for the king is searching for a queen, not for a prostitute. Rest assured, you have endeared yourself to all of us, and you will also endear yourself to the king.”

Esther listened and followed Hegei’s advice. Wearing a simple but striking gown, Esther came to the king without any gimmicks or strategies. Before entering the king’s presence, Esther prayed, “Lord God of Israel, help me!” And God did. Xerxes was enchanted by this lovely young woman who was well – spoken, kind, modest, and intelligent. The longer Xerxes spent in Esther’s presence, the more appealing he found her. “Finally,” thought Xerxes, “I have found my true queen!” Xerxes was so thrilled that he immediately crowned Esther and held a royal banquet in her honor. To celebrate the new queen, Xerxes distributed lavish gifts throughout all the provinces, celebrating Esther in a magnificent way.

APPLICATION: Esther won the heart of the most powerful king in her world, not through stratagems or tricks but by the obvious goodness of her heart and her character. Sadly, these days many young women are failing to follow her example.

In 1 Timothy 2:9 Paul advises Timothy to caution the women who are believers to “adorn themselves in modest apparel with propriety and moderation, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly clothing.” Evidently, there were controversies about dress 2000 years ago just as there are today. And some of the ladies of the early church had evidently adopted the “if you’ve got it, flaunt it!” philosophy. But showing off one’s wealth or one’s physical assets scarcely promotes worship. Recently, one famous Gospel musician here in Ghana stated that he would no longer sing special numbers during church offerings because some of the ladies of the church were dressing in such a provocative fashion that it distracted him from worshiping the Lord. Years ago, we lived in mid-town Memphis in a tough area where prostitutes were flagging down cars less than a block from our house. These days, some of the dresses young women are wearing to church remind us a great deal of the outfits worn by those prostitutes.

Does this mean that we are horrible old fuddy-duddies who are opposed to young people dressing nicely? Far from it! But when young women appear in church with dresses so tight that they can scarcely breathe and with extremely short skirts and extremely low-cut tops, such dress does not glorify God, nor will it attract young men of good character. Young men will definitely look; however, the question remains that if the young woman is willing to dress like this before marriage, will she change or will she continue to dress like that after marriage? And if she dresses like that after marriage, why should she dress in such a fashion? Will she remain faithful? Such dress is more likely to attract rapists rather than husbands!

1 Corinthians 6:19-20 tells us, “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.” If we claim to follow God, we must reflect His character, His holiness, His righteousness, His goodness, His purity. Esther won a crown and ultimately saved her people from annihilation by her character. Who knows what we might accomplish?

PRAYER: Father God, thank You for loving us and for caring for us. Lord, please help us to please You in our mode of dress and not merely to dress to attract attention. Help us to remember that others are watching us and judging us on the basis of our behavior, just as all in that harem watched Esther for those twelve months. Let these scriptures speak to the hearts of all who read them! In the matchless Name of King Jesus. Amen.

MARCH 8, 2026 ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED FEBRUARY 24, 2023 WHO KNOWS BUT WHAT YOU HAVE COME TO THE KINGDOM FOR SUCH A TIME AS THIS? ESTHER 1:1-22 GOD CAN EVEN USE A DRUNKEN DESPOT TO WORK OUT HIS WILL

March 8, 2026

In view of the Iranian conflict, I feel God wants me to re-post the series I originally wrote on the Book of Esther in 2023.

The Empire Has No Clothes (Esther 1:1–22) — Refuge ChurchQueen Vashti Deposed

“This is what happened during the time of Xerxes,(Ahasuerus in Hebrew) the Xerxes who ruled over 127 provinces stretching from India to Cush(the Upper Nile Region):  At that time King Xerxes reigned from his royal throne in the citadel of Susa, and in the third year of his reign he gave a banquet for all his nobles and officials. The military leaders of Persia and Media, the princes, and the nobles of the provinces were present.

For a full 180 days (6 months) he displayed the vast wealth of his kingdom and the splendor and glory of his majesty. When these days were over, the king gave a banquet, lasting seven days, in the enclosed garden of the king’s palace, for all the people from the least to the greatest who were in the citadel of Susa. The garden had hangings of white and blue linen, fastened with cords of white linen and purple material to silver rings on marble pillars. There were couches of gold and silver on a mosaic pavement of porphyry, marble, mother-of-pearl and other costly stones. Wine was served in goblets of gold, each one different from the other, and the royal wine was abundant, in keeping with the king’s liberality. By the king’s command each guest was allowed to drink with no restrictions, for the king instructed all the wine stewards to serve each man what he wished. (Some versions say “the drinking was not compulsory,” indicating that some rulers would force their guests to get drunk.) Queen Vashti also gave a banquet for the women in the royal palace of King Xerxes.

On the seventh day, when King Xerxes was in high spirits from wine, he commanded the seven eunuchs who served him—Mehuman, Biztha, Harbona, Bigtha, Abagtha, Zethar and Karkas—to bring before him Queen Vashti, wearing her royal crown, in order to display her beauty to the people and nobles, for she was lovely to look at. But when the attendants delivered the king’s command, Queen Vashti refused to come. (It’s possible that Xerxes wanted Vashti to be naked apart from her crown; he was drunk enough to do that!) Then the king became furious and burned with anger.

Since it was customary for the king to consult experts in matters of law and justice, he spoke with the wise men who understood the times and were closest to the king—Karshena, Shethar, Admatha, Tarshish, Meres, Marsena and Memukan, the seven nobles of Persia and Media who had special access to the king and were highest in the kingdom. “According to law, what must be done to Queen Vashti?” he asked. “She has not obeyed the command of King Xerxes that the eunuchs have taken to her.”

Then Memukan replied in the presence of the king and the nobles, “Queen Vashti has done wrong, not only against the king but also against all the nobles and the peoples of all the provinces of King Xerxes. For the queen’s conduct will become known to all the women, and so they will despise their husbands and say, ‘King Xerxes commanded Queen Vashti to be brought before him, but she would not come.’ This very day the Persian and Median women of the nobility who have heard about the queen’s conduct will respond to all the king’s nobles in the same way. There will be no end of disrespect and discord.

“Therefore, if it pleases the king, let him issue a royal decree and let it be written in the laws of Persia and Media, which cannot be repealed, that Vashti is never again to enter the presence of King Xerxes. Also let the king give her royal position to someone else who is better than she. Then when the king’s edict is proclaimed throughout all his vast realm, all the women will respect their husbands, from the least to the greatest.”

The king and his nobles were pleased with this advice, so the king did as Memukan proposed. He sent dispatches to all parts of the kingdom, to each province in its own script and to each people in their own language, proclaiming that every man should be ruler over his own household, using his native tongue.”

Talk about celebrating your achievements! King Xerxes has been celebrating himself and his empire for the last six months. There have been parades, military demonstrations, athletic games, horse races, and every other entertainment an immensely powerful ruler can imagine. Now Xerxes has given a final banquet lasting seven days for all the men in the kingdom. (What? You thought “people” referred to women? No way!) Xerxes himself has probably stayed drunk for much of that time, although he has allowed his guests to drink as much or as little as they wish. This fact is noted because in those days, some rulers would have forced their guests to become completely wasted. Gee, what a great guy! After drinking and feasting for seven days straight, Xerxes suddenly decides that Q               ueen Vashti should appear in her royal crown – likely in her crown and nothing else – so that he can flaunt the fact that his queen is the most beautiful woman in the kingdom. Being sober and in her right mind, Vashti refuses. But this refusal infuriates Xerxes. Having spent the last six months celebrating himself and being thoroughly drunk, Xerxes is in no mood for refusals by anybody, especially a woman, no matter how beautiful she is.

Xerxes consults his seven advisers, who are probably just as drunk as he is. Thanks to some anonymous scribe, we even know the names of these men: “Karshena, Shethar, Admatha, Tarshish, Meres, Marsena and Memukan, the seven nobles of Persia and Media who had special access to the king and were highest in the kingdom.” These guys might be drunk, but they aren’t stupid, and they realize that their own positions depend on whether or not Xerxes accepts their advice. There are probably lots of other sages in the kingdom who would be more than happy to replace them. Given the reality of the situation and the unspoken threats from King Xerxes, the advisers have little choice but to suggest that Queen Vashti be retired to the royal harem, where she will spend the rest of her life in seclusion. Then Xerxes can find some new and even more gorgeous queen and women throughout the empire will be afraid to say anything against their husbands for fear of similar banishment. And to hide Xerxes’ embarrassment, the advisers send out a royal edict stating that “every man should be ruler over his own household” in all the various languages used throughout the various parts of the empire.   

APPLICATION: The Book of Esther is quirky. Why preserve the account of a six-month long royal indulgence capped off by a seven-day long drunk and followed by a capricious royal edict? And yet….and yet God has allowed this small Book to be included for lots of reasons. Most of us have relatively little control over many of the circumstances of our lives. As the line from the song from Fiddler on the Roof says, “Life has a way of abusing us, blessing and bruising us!”

Through the years, God has used this small Book to encourage believers in all kinds of circumstances, including concentration camps, prisons, poverty, joblessness, etc. TODAY GOD WANTS YOU TO KNOW THAT HE IS ENGINEERING YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES, WEIRD AS THEY MIGHT SEEM! GOD WANTS YOU TO WATCH, BECAUSE HE IS GOING TO USE THE VERY THINGS THAT HURT AND CONFUSE YOU TO WORK OUT SOMETHING WONDERFUL!

Let’s pray.

PRAYER: Father God, thank You for loving us and for caring for us. Lord, many of us are bewildered by the chaos around us. Help us to realize that Your hand is never shortened and that You are never confused or bewildered and that You are a God of peace. Please send Your peace into the hearts of all who read these words. In the matchless Name of King Jesus. Amen.

FEBRUARY 10, 2026-GOD, ARE YOU REALLY CALLING ME? #10 FOCUS ON GOD, NOT YOUR CALL OR ITS BENEFITS

February 10, 2026

Judges 8:22-27 Then the Israelites said to Gideon, “Be our ruler! You and your son and your grandson will be our rulers, for you have rescued us from Midian.”

But Gideon replied, “I will not rule over you, nor will my son. The Lord will rule over you! However, I do have one request—that each of you give me an earring from the plunder you collected from your fallen enemies.” (The enemies, being Ishmaelites, all wore gold earrings.)

“Gladly!” they replied. They spread out a cloak, and each one threw in a gold earring he had gathered from the plunder. The weight of the gold earrings was forty-three pounds, not including the royal ornaments and pendants, the purple clothing worn by the kings of Midian, or the chains around the necks of their camels.

Gideon made a sacred ephod from the gold and put it in Ophrah, his hometown. But soon all the Israelites prostituted themselves by worshiping it, and it became a trap for Gideon and his family.

Idolatry! So easy to get into and so difficult to escape! When Gideon’s story begins, his father is the local priest for both Asherah and Baal, with the Asherah pole right next to the Baal altar. God has Gideon tear down both, build a new altar, and offer his father’s seven-year-old bull on the new altar as a burnt offering using the Asherah pole as fuel for the fire. Then Gideon wins a stunning victory when God causes the enemy armies to panic and attack one another. But what’s next?

When offered the chance to become a ruler, Gideon wisely refuses, saying, “I will not rule over you, nor will my son. The Lord will rule over you!” If Gideon were to stop there, everything would be fine. Gideon is pointing people to the Lord. But Gideon doesn’t stop there. The Israelites have captured a huge quantity of gold. Why not create an ephod, a sacred garment? But why? David Guzik in his Enduring Word Commentary has this to say about the ephod:

a. Gideon made it into an ephod and set it up in his city: An ephod is a shirt-like garment worn by the priests of Israel (Exodus 28). This was obviously wrong, and it is not immediately apparent why Gideon did this. It is possible he did this to work against the prestige and influence of the tribe of Ephraim. At this time the tabernacle – the center of worship for Israel – was at Shiloh, in the territory of Ephraim. Gideon perhaps set up this rival place of worship to compete against the tribe that troubled him in the battle against Midian.

i. “While this was probably done out of a sense of the religious failure of the people, the effect produced was evil and resulted in deterioration of the character of Gideon himself.” (Morgan)

ii. “He did not set up an idol, but he made an ephod, an imitation of that wonderful vestment worn by the high priest. Perhaps he made it of solid gold, not to be worn, but to be looked at, simply to remind the people of the worship of God, and not to be itself worshipped. But ah, dear friends, you see here that, if we go half an inch beyond what God’s Word warrants we always get into mischief!” (Spurgeon)

b. And all Israel played the harlot with it there: The people of Israel enjoyed this idolatrous worship. The beautiful and expensive ephod became a snare to Gideon, his family, and all Israel.

i. Artistic beauty has a way of impressing us and giving a sense of awe, but it is not necessarily a godly impression or awe. Many times, it can distract our focus from the LORD. In contrast to this ephod, God commanded that His altars be made of unfinished stone (Exodus 20:25), so that no one’s attention was focused on the beauty of the stone carver’s work.

ii. Gideon was remarkably obedient and filled with faith in the extreme moment of battle. The routine of daily living seems to have been a greater test of his character. This is true for many, and the challenges of daily living are more difficult than those of the extreme moment.

iii. “Perhaps it is easier to honour God in some courageous action in the limelight of a time of national emergency than it is to honour Him consistently in the ordinary, everyday life, which requires a different kind of courage.” (Cundall)

Judges 8:29-35 Then Gideon son of Joash returned home. He had seventy sons born to him, for he had many wives. He also had a concubine in Shechem, who gave birth to a son, whom he named Abimelech. Gideon died when he was very old, and he was buried in the grave of his father, Joash, at Ophrah in the land of the clan of Abiezer. As soon as Gideon died, the Israelites prostituted themselves by worshiping the images of Baal, making Baal-berith their god. They forgot the Lord their God, who had rescued them from all their enemies surrounding them. Nor did they show any loyalty to the family of Jerub-baal (that is, Gideon), despite all the good he had done for Israel.

Although Gideon has claimed he will not rule, he immediately sets himself up as a ruler. Gideon’s new-gained wealth allows him to acquire a large harem, fathering seventy sons. And he does rule at least part of Israel for the rest of his life. Sadly, Gideon forgets the Lord who has brought him victory and prosperity. And as soon as Gideon dies, the Israelites return to Baal worship. (“Baal” is a general term meaning “Lord,” so there are many Baals, probably because demons are territorial and therefore take the name Baal ______, as in Baal-berith.

Recently, I was asked what I would do if I were to leave surgery, or even medicine altogether. While I am certain that if God calls me to do something else, I will do it, I love what I do and I love my patients and my interactions with them and their families. But we must always remember that it is God who calls us to do any work and that He can always change our assignments. Our work cannot become so important that we worship it rather than God. Idolatry is seductive and easy to slide into without noticing it.

After winning magnificent victories with God’s help, Gideon does well by pointing people to God but almost immediately stumbles. Never assume that you will not fail at the same place as someone else! We read this story and think, “Oh, I would never do that.” But anything can become an idol. The only safe practice is to remain focused on God, His Will and His Word. Anything else, anything less, and we are immediately in trouble, whether or not we realize it. And when our call becomes more important than anything else, we might make human sacrifices of our friends and family, leaving us isolated, frustrated, and lonely. Beware when you feel compelled to do something for the sake of your call! Is God compelling you, or has your devotion to what you are doing become the force that moves you?

What did God want Gideon to do once he had conquered the Midianites? The answers lie in the Mosaic laws, for God wanted Gideon to worship Him and to encourage others to do so. But Gideon had never fully committed his heart and mind to God, so as soon as the moment of divine inspiration had passed, Gideon immediately created a new idol.

You feel you have a divine call. Well and good. But be very certain that you continue to worship God and keep the eyes of your heart on Him, for you never know when He might change your direction. And remain humble when God gives you victory, realizing that it’s always his doing and not yours. Do these things and you will please God. Fail to do them and you will wind up like Gideon, reverting to idol worship.

PRAYER: Father God, thank You for loving us and caring for us. Lord, help us to follow You, first, last, and always, remembering that calls are secondary to worshiping You. In the mighty and precious Name of King Jesus. Amen.

FEBRUARY 8 2026-GOD, ARE YOU REALLY CALLING ME? #8 WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN GOD SENDS AWAY MOST OF YOUR HELP?

February 8, 2026

Judges 7:1-8 Gideon Defeats the Midianites

So Jerub-baal (that is, Gideon) and his army got up early and went as far as the spring of Harod. The armies of Midian were camped north of them in the valley near the hill of Moreh. The Lord said to Gideon, “You have too many warriors with you. If I let all of you fight the Midianites, the Israelites will boast to me that they saved themselves by their own strength. Therefore, tell the people, ‘Whoever is timid or afraid may leave this mountain and go home.’” So 22,000 of them went home, leaving only 10,000 who were willing to fight.

But the Lord told Gideon, “There are still too many! Bring them down to the spring, and I will test them to determine who will go with you and who will not.” When Gideon took his warriors down to the water, the Lord told him, “Divide the men into two groups. In one group put all those who cup water in their hands and lap it up with their tongues like dogs. In the other group put all those who kneel down and drink with their mouths in the stream.” Only 300 of the men drank from their hands. All the others got down on their knees and drank with their mouths in the stream.

The Lord told Gideon, “With these 300 men I will rescue you and give you victory over the Midianites. Send all the others home.” So Gideon collected the provisions and rams’ horns of the other warriors and sent them home. But he kept the 300 men with him.

When Gideon surveys the Valley of Jezreel, the valley is full of enemy troops. Even the 32,000 men Gideon has seems like a small number by comparison. But God isn’t pleased, for if He gives victory to those 32,000 men, they will take all the credit. So God proposes a series of tests. First, God advises Gideon to tell the men, “Whoever is timid or afraid may leave this mountain and go home.” You can practically hear the sighs of relief as 22,000 men immediately take to their heels, heading for home. But 10,000 men are left, and that’s still too many. Next, God orders Gideon to send the men to the spring and observe the manner in which they drink. 300 men scoop water in their hands and stand up to drink while watching for attack while the remaining 9700 kneel by the spring and scoop water. God knows that the 300 men who watch as they drink are seasoned warriors while the rest are careless and therefore liabilities in battle.

Now Gideon is really afraid! 300 men to defeat thousands of enemy soldiers with fancy weapons? How can this possibly work? Tomorrow we will see what a complete victory God gives Gideon, but today our focus is on the difference between our view of a situation and God’s. God has called Gideon. Gideon KNOWS God has called him. But Gideon is still looking at his own resources to save the situation; meanwhile, God is planning another miracle. Too many soldiers might convince the Israelites that they have gotten victory rather than realizing that God is simply using them as His tools. God wants to do something so audacious that NOBODY else can possibly get the credit for success.

This story resonates with me because we have lived it several times over. In February 1992 we came to a small village in northeastern Ghana to look at a clinic where a national church wanted us to work. There were eleven workers, no electricity, a poor water supply, no laboratory, no possibility of doing blood transfusions, and no operating room. I am a surgeon and an OR (Operating theatre) plus blood transfusions are necessary for surgery. But when we got out of the vehicle in the old mission house yard, the Holy Spirit descended like a big warm blanket wrapping around us, and suddenly we KNEW God wanted us to come to that uninviting place.

We returned in January 1993, and when we had been there a year, a small tribal war broke out. Suddenly, we became the only source of medical care for more than 100,000 people. I started the theatre and the laboratory, training several nurses and one physician’s assistant to group and cross match walk-in blood donors. We began doing hospital level work in a small health center building. That first year we performed 192 major operations, sterilizing everything in a large pressure cooker over a coal pot on the verandah. Eventually, God sent us a few more workers, raising our staff count to 22.  But it was God who worked through those 22 workers, for nobody else could take the credit.

Today that small clinic has become a district hospital serving more than 120,000 people and attracting patients from great distances. But God is the only One who can really take credit. The rest of us have just happened to be in the near vicinity.

Perhaps you feel like Gideon. God has set you a daunting task and has then removed much of your help. Don’t worry! Remember that if God calls you, God is responsible for the results, and God can work just as effectively through a few people as He can through many. Trust God and then expect great things!

PRAYER: Father God, thank You for loving us and caring for us. Lord, help us to trust You no matter what, realizing that all success must come from You in the first place. In the mighty and precious Name of King Jesus. Amen.

JANUARY 18, 2026 WE ALL NEED COMFORT, BUT HOW DO WE GET IT? #18 GOD CAN EVEN RECONCILE FIGHTING SIBLINGS

January 18, 2026

Genesis 25:1-10 Now Abraham married again. Keturah was his new wife, and she bore him several children: Zimran, Jokshan, Medan, Midian, Ishbak, Shuah. Jokshan’s two sons were Sheba and Dedan. Dedan’s sons were Asshurim, Letushim, and Leummim. Midian’s sons were Ephah, Epher, Hanoch, Abida, and Eldaah.

Abraham deeded everything he owned to Isaac; however, he gave gifts to the sons of his concubines and sent them off into the east, away from Isaac.

Then Abraham died, at the ripe old age of 175, and his sons Isaac and Ishmael buried him in the cave of Mach-pelah near Mamre, in the field Abraham had purchased from Ephron the son of Zohar, the Hethite, where Sarah, Abraham’s wife, was buried.

If you do the math, by the time Sarah dies, Abraham is already 137 years old; however, God blesses him so that he is able to marry again, a lady named Keturah, and father six more sons. After deeding everything to Isaac, Abraham makes generous gifts to these men and sends them eastward so they won’t be tempted to compete with Isaac.

When Abraham dies at age 175, Ishmael is at least 88 and Isaac is 75. Setting any old differences aside, the two men come together to bury Abraham in the cave of Mach-pelah where Sarah is buried. Isaac is the son of promise, inheriting Abraham’s spiritual legacy and much of his wealth. In the past, Abraham has prayed over Ishmael, and God has promised to make Ishmael great. (Genesis 17:20 “I shall cause him to multiply and become a great nation.” And God repeats this promise to Hagar in Genesis 21:18) God does grant Ishmael twelve sons, each of whom becomes the chief of his own tribe. But the most important thing about these few verses is that Abraham’s boys cooperate on his funeral. As carefully as the Bible scribes have been to record every small detail, if Ishmael and Isaac had fought over their father’s funeral, that fight would have been recorded down to the last syllable.

Think about it: Ishmael is the first-born, and under the customs of many tribes, Ishmael should inherit, no matter whether his mother is a concubine or a wife. But God has decreed that Isaac, the son of promise, must inherit from Abraham. In modern parlance, Isaac is the “chosen child.” And Ishmael is a difficult character, far more comfortable hunting in the wilderness than remaining in tents. God blesses Ishmael according to Ishmael’s nature, just as He blesses Isaac.

There are some families where siblings get along well, and then there are other families where sibling rivalries can be vicious. One set of twins spent decades distancing themselves from each other because each thought the other was their father’s favorite. In fact, their father was a good man; however, he had been raised by older siblings when his mother died, and he had never learned how to express affection. When one twin was doing something outstanding, the father would praise that twin to the other. “Look at your brother! Isn’t that great?” Blessedly, God brought timely reconciliation, but years of fellowship were lost because of that wrong belief. And there are parents who truly favor one child over all the others, frequently with disastrous results.

Some families have done well until a parent dies, and it’s time for the estate to be settled. Siblings fighting over stuff may refuse to speak to one another for years. But it’s hard to say “I’m sorry” to a grave. Promising to reconcile “tomorrow” is worthless, for that tomorrow may never come.  

How does God want us to relate to our siblings? How can He bring comfort? Ephesians 4 has a lot to say about getting along with difficult people. Ephesians 4:2-3 tells us, “Be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. Try always to be led along together by the Holy Spirit and so be at peace with one another.” Most of us want to give ourselves a “free pass” to behave badly, stating all kinds of excuses; meanwhile, we rush to judge others severely. When I was a child, my parents used to warn me that when I pointed one finger at someone else, I had three fingers and a thumb pointing back at me, indicating that I was just as at fault as the person whom I was criticizing.

Ephesians 4:26-27 warns us, “If you are angry, don’t sin by nursing your grudge. Don’t let the sun go down with you still angry—get over it quickly; for when you are angry, you give a mighty foothold to the devil.”

It’s true that “unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” Ephesians 4:31-32 advises, “Stop being mean, bad-tempered, and angry. Quarreling, harsh words, and dislike of others should have no place in your lives. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God has forgiven you because you belong to Christ.”

But what if someone has really hurt you badly, so badly you can scarcely even think about that person? The father of the famous Christian author and teacher, C.S. Lewis, was a selfish and difficult man, insensitive to the needs of both his sons. Once Lewis became a Christian, he had to continue to forgive his father as an act of will, until one day he realized that he had succeeded. Incidentally, this process of forgiveness took years.

Notice something else: Forgiving someone who has hurt you, even loving them, does not mean you have to trust them if they have proven themselves untrustworthy. Unless God specifically orders you to make yourself vulnerable, you are not obligated to expose yourself to further abuse. But there are exceptions. Saint Paul was stoned in Lystra; however, God preserved him, and he later returned to the city to teach new converts. God used Paul to demonstrate His mighty power to the unbelievers at Lystra.

As we consider the miracle of Ishmael and Isaac cooperating to perform their father’s funeral, we should examine ourselves. Have we been harboring grudges against anyone, particularly against any of our siblings? If God brings anyone to mind, ask God to help you and then forgive! Why carry a load of anger around so it can eat into your soul? And there is this about forgiveness: the more you forgive others, the easier it becomes. Remember that God forgives us when we confess our sins. If the Judge of the whole earth can forgive that readily, how can we lesser beings continue to hold grudges?

PRAYER: Father God, thank You for loving us and caring for us. Lord, many of us are walking wounded, hemorrhaging spiritually from hurts inflicted by family and acquaintances. We confess that we are sinners and that we cannot free ourselves from our own sins, let alone forgive others. Please, Lord, forgive us our sins and grant us the courage and the grace to forgive all those who have hurt us, whether intentionally or unintentionally. In the mighty and precious Name of King Jesus. Amen.

DECEMBER 27, 2025 WE ARE ALL FERAL CATS PART 2

December 27, 2025

This morning, I can hear our new kitten crying pitifully as he sits in his litter box in his cage. Gabriel, our kitten, has been drinking the water and eating the food we have given him, but he longs for his mother. We long to comfort Gabriel, to nestle him in our arms, but he still fears us. Were we to try to cuddle him right now, one of us might wind up in the Emergency Room with stitches!

One of the many names of Jesus is “Immanuel” or “Emmanuel,” meaning “God with us.” But why should God order that his Son be called by such a name? God wants all people to know that He is not sitting someplace far away but that He is as close as their heartbeats. But there’s a problem: Just as we struggle to communicate with little Gabriel the kitten, God keeps sending His Word by various means to communicate with people, many of whom aren’t listening or are deafened by the noise of the world around them.

All we want to do is to comfort Gabriel, to make him feel secure, and to demonstrate the depth of our love for him; yet, we struggle to reassure him. If one of us were able to speak “cat” or even to become a cat with the knowledge we have, it would be much easier to comfort Gabriel. We celebrate Christmas because at Christmas, God accomplished what we cannot: He sent Jesus to be born as a baby to a poor family from an obscure village so that He could demonstrate His love and concern through Jesus. Jesus was also born so that he could love, minister, and die as a blood sacrifice for the sins of the whole world, conquering death, hell, and the grave.

Each time little Gabriel mews pitifully, our hearts break, and we beg God again to help us find some way to comfort him. Now if God is a loving Father, with a great heart of love deeper than anything we can possibly imagine, won’t He have compassion on His suffering children just as we have compassion for our kitten? When we cry, God hears us, even though help doesn’t always come in the form we desire. Again, Isaiah 55:9 reminds us that God’s ways are higher than ours.

On the night before Jesus was crucified, he was struggling to impart everything he possibly could to his disciples while he was still with them. John recorded those conversations. In John 14:7-11, Jesus was trying to reassure his friends.

7 “If you had known Me, you would have known My Father also; and from now on you know Him and have seen Him.”

8 Philip said to Him, “Lord, show us the Father, and it is sufficient for us.”

9 Jesus said to him, “Have I been with you so long, and yet you have not known Me, Philip? He who has seen Me has seen the Father; so how can you say, ‘Show us the Father’? 10 Do you not believe that I am in the Father, and the Father in Me? The words that I speak to you I do not speak on My own authority; but the Father who dwells in Me does the works. 11 Believe Me that I am in the Father and the Father in Me, or else believe Me for the sake of the works themselves.”

If Jesus had been a cat speaking to other cats, he would have told them that he was sent by the Creator of all cats to demonstrate that Creator’s love.

Do we think we occupy the place of God with our kitten? Far from it! We are flawed human beings whose race mostly lost the ability to communicate with the animals when sin entered the world. Throughout the world, there are those individuals blessed in their abilities to communicate with animals. But we firmly believe that God can comfort our kitten and we are begging Him to do so. We are begging for Immanuel to comfort little Gabriel, to be “God with Gabriel.”

Please notice something: we should always worship the Creator, not the creature. Someone grieving the loss of their sixteen-year-old cat mentioned on Facebook that they intended to create an altar to the cat. As a shrine to remember the cat, that might be all right; however, to worship a dead cat would be quite wrong, no matter how precious the memories might be.

So once more, we find ourselves resembling feral cats. We want to trust God, but we have bitter memories, and we aren’t really sure if this “Immanuel” business, this “God with us” stuff is real or not. But the good thing about Jesus is that his followers recorded Jesus’ teachings in four different Gospels, each with its own approach, giving us the information we need about Jesus and his Heavenly Father.

If you are new to the Bible, begin by reading the Gospel of John in a format that speaks to you. Personally, I like the New King James version because it preserves the language of the King James without archaic terms. But other versions such as The Message or The Living Bible are equally good. The important thing is to learn about Jesus, Immanuel, God with us. Let’s pray.

PRAYER: Father God, thank You for loving us and caring for us. Lord, we confess that we are all feral cats. We have been hurt and we don’t trust anybody. Lord, please speak to the hearts of all those reading these words, make Yourself so real to them that they KNOW You are Immanuel, God with them. In the mighty and precious Name of King Jesus. Amen.  

BURYING BILLY GENE PROCTOR SEPTEMBER 29, 2025

September 29, 2025

They’re burying one of our closest friends today, and we can’t be there. This is the part of missionary life that few people speak about, but it’s one of the toughest. Financial limitations? No problem! Both my husband and I grew up in families where money was a bit scarce. Devoting time to caring for others? Giving up luxury vacations to pay for blood, medicine, and food for patients? Sure, those are challenges, but anybody in any kind of ministry faces similar problems. There are many things we have sacrificed gladly for the sake of God’s calling on our lives. But once in a while, special events come along and remind us that our friends and loved ones are back in America and we are not. Funerals of close friends serve as one of those reminders.

Today as our friends gather at Getwell Church in Southaven, MS, we will be fortunate if we are able to watch the proceedings as they are streamed. But watching something doesn’t make up for being there and hugging people, sharing stories of the loved one, and yes-crying a bit with the family. While those attending the funeral will be treated to a gallery of photos and a video depicting Billy’s long life of 84 years and those whom he blessed during that time, all we will have is memories.

Jesus’ disciple Simon Peter was one of those guys who was forever asking the tough questions. I guess having spent years hauling fish out of the Sea of Galilee and battling those sudden storms left Peter with no patience for temporizing. When Peter had a question, he simply spat it out. And this particular day, Peter was worried.

Matthew tells the story in Matthew 19:16-29A rich young ruler approaches Jesus, asking what he has to do to gain eternal life. Jesus tells him to follow the Ten Commandments. When the man claims that he’s already doing that, Jesus advises him, “If you want to give it all you’ve got,” Jesus replied, “go sell your possessions; give everything to the poor. All your wealth will then be in heaven. Then come follow me.” The young man gulps hard and leaves dejected because he is very rich and very attached to his belongings. (But wait-there are some traditions that claim this young ruler was Mark, who later wrote one of the Gospels and who traveled with Paul and Barnabas.)

Peter and the other disciples have left their homes and their jobs to follow Jesus. Peter, his brother Andrew, and his friends James and John have walked away from thriving and businesses at Capernaum. All four have left their boats and their relatives to follow Jesus and are faithfully continuing to do so.

Matthew 19:27 Then Peter chimed in, “We left everything and followed you. What do we get out of it?”

28-30 Jesus replied, “Yes, you have followed me. In the re-creation of the world, when the Son of Man will rule gloriously, you who have followed me will also rule, starting with the twelve tribes of Israel. And not only you, but anyone who sacrifices home, family, fields—whatever—because of me will get it all back a hundred times over, not to mention the considerable bonus of eternal life. This is the Great Reversal: many of the first ending up last, and the last first.”

Now Peter is asking Jesus what he and the others will get out of the deal. Has this sacrifice all been for nothing? Not only have the disciples given up being with their families but they have also sacrificed sharing special celebrations-birthdays, feast days, weddings, and funerals. Led by the Holy Spirit, Jesus has crisscrossed the land, leaving the disciples wondering where they will go next. Jesus assures Peter that his followers will receive houses and lands and families, both in this life and in the next. But in the meantime, the disciples find themselves isolated from their families by the call on their lives.

We met Billy Proctor shortly after arriving in Memphis, TN, in late June 1983. I was the new pediatric surgery resident at LeBonheur Children’s Hospital. Billy and his wife Carla were members at Faith United Methodist Church, a charismatic congregation just over the line in Southaven, MS. Eventually, we joined Faith and became fast friends with Billy and Carla. If you look at photos of Billy during that time, you see a middle-aged guy with a grin that just won’t quit, a grin that draws you in to whatever he has going on. Billy had that grin for his entire life, and I’m sure that the day Billy graduated into heaven, when Jesus reached out his hand to Billy to pull him out of a failing body, Billy grinned more widely than he ever had before.

It’s impossible for me to enumerate all the different ways Billy and Carla have helped us over the years. The Proctors have sheltered us, advised us, encouraged us, and handled our stateside mail for us. Billy has handled our finances, helping invest our Social Security and whatever other monies have come in that have not been used for ministry expenses. Billy has also shared travel tips with us, tips on local restaurants, and some of his other passions.

We have watched the Proctors’ children reach adulthood, marry, and become parents and develop careers of their own. We have rejoiced over births and grieved over untimely deaths. We have cheered for all kinds of successes and admired photos. Our lives and those of the Proctor family have become interwoven.

I am completing this about an hour before the funeral will begin. We can only pray that our internet connection will remain stable, allowing us to watch, even if it’s at a distance of several thousand miles.

The next time you ask a missionary based overseas for their challenges, remember there are many things about which we might be hesitant to share. We don’t want to come off as whiners. But we can only rejoice that some day we will all be in heaven together. As the old Gospel song says, “When we all get to heaven, what a day of rejoicing that will be! When we all see Jesus, we’ll sing and shout the victory!”

MAY 26, 2025 FOLLOWING JESUS IN A POST-ASCENSION WORLD #32 WHEN GOD SENDS YOU, DON’T CONFUSE THE MESSENGER WITH THE MESSAGE!

May 26, 2025

Acts 14:1-7 At Iconium

“Now it happened in Iconium that they went together to the synagogue of the Jews, and so spoke that a great multitude both of the Jews and of the Greeks believed. But the unbelieving Jews stirred up the Gentiles and poisoned their minds against the brethren. Therefore, they stayed there a long time, speaking boldly in the Lord, who was bearing witness to the word of His grace, granting signs and wonders to be done by their hands.

But the multitude of the city was divided: part sided with the Jews, and part with the apostles. And when a violent attempt was made by both the Gentiles and Jews, with their rulers, to abuse and stone them, they became aware of it and fled to Lystra and Derbe, cities of Lycaonia, and to the surrounding region. And they were preaching the gospel there.

When you are acting for the Kingdom of God, there will always be opposition. And the more effective your ministry, the stronger the opposition. Here, Paul and Barnabas have been preaching and teaching and many people, both Jews and Greeks, have been streaming into the Kingdom of God. But traditional leaders whose commitment to their own power is greater than their commitment to God’s truth are doing everything they can to fight these men. Finally, Paul and Barnabas find themselves on the road again, fleeing to Lystra and Derbe and the surrounding region, preaching the gospel as they go.

While Paul and Barnabas are probably thinking only of escaping opposition, God has far bigger plans. For as these preachers are fleeing from one place to another, they are teaching people about Jesus wherever they go, lighting fires of hope in people’s hearts. Psalm 37;23 tells us that “The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and He delights in his way.” While Paul and Barnabas might feel they are wandering aimlessly across the countryside, meanwhile, God is moving them into strategically important connections with spiritually hungry people ready to hear the gospel and accept it.

Acts 14:8-18 Idolatry at Lystra

And in Lystra a certain man without strength in his feet was sitting, a cripple from his mother’s womb, who had never walked. This man heard Paul speaking. Paul, observing him intently and seeing that he had faith to be healed, said with a loud voice, “Stand up straight on your feet!” And he leaped and walked. Now when the people saw what Paul had done, they raised their voices, saying in the Lycaonian language, “The gods have come down to us in the likeness of men!” And Barnabas they called Zeus, and Paul, Hermes, because he was the chief speaker. Then the priest of Zeus, whose temple was in front of their city, brought oxen and garlands to the gates, intending to sacrifice with the multitudes.

But when the apostles Barnabas and Paul heard this, they tore their clothes and ran in among the multitude, crying out and saying, “Men, why are you doing these things? We also are men with the same nature as you, and preach to you that you should turn from these useless things to the living God, who made the heaven, the earth, the sea, and all things that are in them, who in bygone generations allowed all nations to walk in their own ways. Nevertheless, He did not leave Himself without witness, in that He did good, gave us rain from heaven and fruitful seasons, filling our hearts with food and gladness.” And with these sayings they could scarcely restrain the multitudes from sacrificing to them.”

The people of Lystra have been worshiping fake Grecian gods, even though the myths describe these beings as far from having any purity or holiness. When Paul and Barnabas speak to a man crippled from birth, he leaps up healed and whole. Local people are so thrilled that they can only conclude that their gods have descended and are favoring them. But now Paul and Barnabas have a new set of problems: the temptation to allow themselves to be worshiped as gods. Quite sensibly, Paul and Barnabas refuse, doing everything they can to convince these people that the God of heaven and earth has done this miracle and that they are only His agents.

The temptation to take glory reserved only for God continues to this day. Here in Ghana, it is quite common for those conducting crusades to spread posters portraying the evangelist and the dates of the crusade as widely as possible, advertising healing and deliverance. But without God, these people are nothing, powerless beings who can only mouth platitudes. The question is this: who is doing the healing and who should receive the glory? While God may work through men and women, He alone deserves the praise and the glory. People do get healed in these crusades; however, the healing comes through their faith in God and not because the evangelist has the power to heal. All power must come from the One True Living God. Paul and Barnabas know that God has healed this man in Lystra and they are doing everything they can to avoid being confused with traditional Greek gods. (Study Greek mythology, and you rapidly realize that the Greek gods are far from holy or pure!)

As God’s ambassadors, we must not take credit when all the glory belongs to God. There is a fictitious story about the donkey that carried Jesus on Palm Sunday feeling proud that all the adulation was for him; meanwhile, the donkey was only a means to an end. Like that donkey, we must allow God to use us but remember that He is the only One worthy of praise.

PRAYER: Father God, thank You for loving us and for caring for us. Lord, help us to continually point people to You, for You are the Source of light and life while we are only messengers. In the mighty and precious Name of King Jesus. Amen.